what happens when we die?

 

NB. Allow Blocked Content for page to display correctly !!!

 

 

 

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT FAIR LADY (SEPTEMBER 2008)

WORDS JACQUI LANGE

 

Tibetan Buddhist - “Absolutely everything counts”

Beryl Schutten teaches Mahamudra Meditation at the Kagyu Samye Dzong Tibetan Buddhist Centre in Kenilworth, Cape Town. For many years she has worked with South Africa’s best known Buddhist, Rob Nairn, contributing to his seminal book Living, Dreaming and Dying (Kairon), a modern western psychological perspective on the Tibetan Book of the Dead. 

 

“In Buddhism there is an enormous field of learning about what lies ahead, and what to expect and recognise in the afterlife.

 

As Rob Nairn puts it, the emphasis is on learning to die skilfully. To do that we practice letting go, and mindfulness – huge subjects in themselves – in order to develop a peaceful and harmonious mind, because the teaching says that, at the moment of death, the last thought is of most importance.  Whatever we have done with our lives makes us what we are when we die. And absolutely everything counts.

 

There are three ‘bardos’ involved in the process of death: the chikae (the “mind at the moment of death”); the chöny (the “mind of being dead”); and the sipae (the “mind of re-becoming”, when we are about to take rebirth).

When we die, consciousness leaves the body in elemental stages (earth, air, fire, water, and space). As each element dissolves, there is a moment when consciousness falls apart and we can see our true nature – the essence of what we are, our primordial purity – and become enlightened. But in this moment, when the true nature of the mind flashes, it does so with such brilliance and vastness and brightness that it can be overpoweringly fearful if we haven’t trained for it. This is why we cultivate mindfulness in life, so that we can recognise what is happening.

 

If you recognise this enlightened nature, you can opt out of the whole process, out of the wheel of life death and rebirth. You go straight to the pure land where you can remain, or choose an auspicious rebirth (as a teacher or a bodhisattva, to help others). If we don’t recognise this true nature of the mind, then in the last bardo stage, sipae, we experience a great longing for a manifestation or a body of some sort. At this point we are drawn to the karmicly appropriate rebirth. At the moment of conception, the consciousness goes into the womb and the whole thing starts all over again.”

 

African traditional - “To go back to where we came from to understand and respect one another”

Sangoma Nolitha grew up in the Transkei in a family of devout Catholics, but was visited by prescient dreams from early childhood. She trained in the Transkei, Botswana and KwaZulu Natal and practises as a sangoma and healer.

 

“As an African, my custom demands that a cow must be slaughtered to say goodbye to a person when he or she dies. We do this to make the way easier so they can go in peace – it is to show that we appreciate what they have done for us in their life.

 

The body of the person goes to the soil but the person doesn’t die, just the body dies. The soul of the person is still alive. It travels everywhere. The souls can see everything; they even walk with us although we cannot see them.

 

After about a year we have a special memorial ceremony. We call the person to come and protect us; another cow must be slaughtered.  If the family doesn’t have a cow or a goat to slaughter, because they haven’t got the money, or because there are no cows, then the ancestor cannot come back; that is why there is so much bad luck and misbehaviour in children – it’s because our great forefathers have not been respected. Once they are in the spirit world, they see the need to make right what they did in their life. They come back because they know it has to be done; they come to their family and chose one to work though. They want to make peace, and you must make peace with them. If you fight with them they become angry. In the spirit world they speak one language – everybody understands one another. We are all one family, united together; it looks like a spinning wheel, and each and every body just holding it, white ancestors and black ones all together. They tell us we need to go back to where we came from to understand and respect one another. And we must first start as we are living now.

 

If you know that you are going to die, you need to clean yourself, purify yourself. There are certain rituals. Most important is to make sure that there is nothing unfinished that you are leaving behind. Then you will always be in peace.”

 

Christian - “You don’t have a soul, you are a soul that incorporates this physicality.

The Rev Tim Attwell is Minister of Rosebank Methodist Church in Cape Town, Secretary of the Cape of Good Hope District of the Methodist Church of Southern Africa, and a member of the Doctrine Ethics and Worship Committee of the Methodist Church of Southern Africa.

 

One of the things that Christian theology, specifically as founded on the New Testament, never tires of pointing out – often to the great surprise of Christians themselves – is that the New Testament doesn’t have a concept of an immortal soul. That’s a concept that goes back to Hellenism, and the dualism derived from Plato; the idea that you have a physical body in which there is entrapped, as it were, and immortal soul and when the body dies this soul ‘leaves the body’. That is not a New Testament idea.

 

The New Testament idea is that of resurrection, which implies bringing to life again in a new way. Paul, writing in I Corinthians 15, a key chapter around the subject of life after death, uses the analogy of the seed – dying is like the planting of the seed. Another example, although its not an ancient Christian symbol, is that of the butterfly: when it emerges from the chrysalis those aspects of the pupa that are no longer appropriate to its ‘butterflyiness’ have been shed. The same principal applies.

 

The point is you don’t have a soul, you are a soul that incorporates this physicality.

 

Folk religion tends to make entry into heaven dependent on good behaviour. You be good, you go to heaven – you become the butterfly. If you are bad you go to hell – and there you fry eternally.Again, the New Testament doesn’t actually say that. It talks about entering into the fullness of life, eternity, heaven, as a result of our receiving love. And in receiving love, one’s relationship with God, and all that makes up all that is – people, the planet, oneself, one’s relationships – are put on a different footing. Hell is the opposite – a state of alienation, of being out of sorts with yourself, with other people, with your environment, the whole works. It is our choice as to whether we are going to engage positively with the emergence of life and being, or whether we are going to withdraw from it.”

 

Islam - “All human beings are fellow travellers toward eternal life”

Dr A. Rashied Omar is Imam of the Claremont Main Road Mosque and a Research Scholar of Islamic Studies and Peacebuilding at the Joan B. Kroc Institute for International Peace Studies, University of Notre Dame, U.S.A.

 

 “Belief in the afterlife is one of the central and core teachings of Islam; it is so crucial to the Islamic faith that a doubt in belief in the afterlife would be a doubt in the belief in God.

 

The Muslim perspective is that we not only have a physical body, but are endowed at birth by God with something we call the ‘Ruh’, or soul. This is described in the most important source of Islamic guidance, the Qur’an: "God breathed into the human beings of His Spirit" (32: 9).

 

Every human being, Muslim or non-Muslim, is endowed with this divine spark. So honouring the dignity of human beings is honouring and praising god.When we die, the soul gets separated from the body again, and returns to God.  So death is not the end, it is the gateway to eternal life. It’s when the soul returns to its destiny, if you will. On this earthly journey, all human beings are fellow travellers towards eternal life. Each one of us is therefore accountable for moral choices. We are expected to nourish the soul – to develop it through worshipping god, through prayers, through righteous acts. This life is as important as the afterlife; it has consequence for the hereafter. ‘Falah’, or salvation in the hereafter, is achieved through our relationships with others – family and friends, Muslims and non-Muslims.

 

If your belief doesn’t make you morally responsible, but develops in you arrogance – as in, ‘I am superior to others because I have this belief’ – then it hasn’t served its purpose. No matter your faith, no matter the colour of your skin, no matter your status in life, all of us are servants of God, and no one is excluded from standing in need of the compassion and mercy of god. Humility is, for me, the essence of being a believer. It is wonderfully illustrated in the Muslim daily call to prayer. The most important part of that call is ‘Allahu Akbar’, ‘God is the greatest’. God is greater than. It is a very powerful thing.”

 

Jewish Mysticism - “The soul is always working on refinement and elevation.”

Rabbi Doctor Arthur Seltzer came to South Africa in 1988. He currently runs a practice in Ayurveda, naturopathy, Chinese medicine, energy healing and Kabbalistic counselling.

 

“The Hassidic world is concerned with the inner mystical meanings of the Torah and the Jewish tradition. I personally live in a world in which reincarnation is as obvious as the rising and setting of the sun.

 

According to the Zohar (the classic work of Jewish Mysticism), human beings have five levels of soul, and in a given reincarnation we are to rectify and elevate our level of soul. Every soul comes into this world with a life task. (If you want to know what your life task is, take a look at aspects of your personality that resist change.) Spiritual work in the next life is a continuation of what we do here; the soul is always working on refinement and elevation of itself and the physical world.

 

There is this interesting notion that the act of dying itself is a process of insight. Before a person dies his soul sees the shechinah; a moment of illumination in which he sees his life and all of reality around him like never before, and allows him to begin his journey in the next world.The separation of the soul and the body, or ‘leave taking’, is understood as a time when a person can make amends for what he has done. So there is an intimate relationship between the quality of life one has lived and the success, to use a strange term, of the process of death.

 

A soul begins its transition with a life review – like watching a DVD of the life’s events.  It then goes to ‘Gehinnom’, a place of purification and refinement, commonly known as hell or purgatory (a soul never remains there more than a year) before moving to the lower Garden of Eden, where there is a further life review dealing with the ‘bigger picture’, the past life in the context of other incarnations.  The soul then goes to the higher Garden of Eden, where it returns to its godly source.

 

Our understanding is that souls are created for the purpose of incarnation and reincarnation to purify themselves and the world by recovering the holy sparks hidden in physicality and to unite with the divine.”

.